Tuesday, 19 May 2015

I Read My Wife's Message to Her EX...Now I'm Confused!


I have been married for about five years now and all seem to be going on well in my family until a couple of months ago when I lost my job. I noticed my wife’s unusual attachment to her phone, the way she guards it from me was becoming annoying but I kept my cool. Of course, like a suspicious lover, I went behind her on this fateful day while she was asleep to her check phone. To cut long story short, that very day, my wife had asked her ex when they were going to meet and get intimate after a long time. I read further, I realised the guy was also married with a kid just like us. And more so, he’s not financially better off me from their conversation.

I’m still in shock as to what could have prompted my wife to do this because, if its love making, I make sure I satisfy her. I’m not a selfish man when it comes to performing my duty as a man.
The one that pained me the most was something she said about him been the reason for her happiness. I have not stopped checking her phone from time to time since then, though I realise the tune of their conversation have changed. They simply just ask about each other’s family. This has continued for sometime now, that I was tempted to think what I saw on that day was just a spur-of-the-moment on the part of my wife or am I just in denial?

God! What do I do? Do I confront her? Take the matter to her family? I wanted to report her to our pastor but I don’t want a situation where it will leak out in church.

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